35, Slowly one comes to realize how much waiting time can endure; many people leave before a goodbye can be said, and many things become the past before they can even be done. In life, who hasn't experienced pain, loss, and regret? Not every passing encounter leads to an acquaintance, nor does every person's coming and going leave a lasting mark. It turns out that the dispersion after many journeys is merely the most ordinary conclusion in this world.
36, Without love, you are destined not to fit into their life. When they no longer love you, please do not weep before them or tell them of your illness, for they cannot offer you true care—at most, it is merely sympathy. Maintain your pride; do not let it go. Remember, they have lost someone who loves them, while you have lost someone who does not love you, but in return, you have gained the chance to live anew and love again!
37, The first level of surrender is to accept the facts; the second level is to surrender to the emotions arising from events, rather than fighting them. Whatever you resist, persists.
38, If I could have 999 strokes of good luck in this life, I would give 997 of them to you, leaving only two for myself: one to meet you, and one to walk with you forever.
39, Life is like a colorful kaleidoscope: sometimes it is a field of blooming flowers, sometimes magnificent peaks, sometimes a river with splashing waves, and sometimes a knee-deep swamp.
