Believe in yourself. Even the most clumsy story is your own path in life. Trust in your creativity and plans; they will surely make your life shine.
A merchant husband stayed away for a long time. The young wife hoped repeatedly but was disappointed each time. As her resentment and loneliness grew, she uttered the foolish words, "marrying a wave-rider." Though foolish, these are bitter words that capture the profound sorrow of a longing wife.
Self-control is a mark of mature beauty. An adult who lacks restraint is often looked down upon, seen as someone unable to withstand pain, setbacks, or failure. How can one shoulder great responsibilities and achieve greatness if they cannot remain composed when facing difficulties?
Because environments vary, psychological perceptions differ. The same sentence can convey different emotions depending on the location and tone. In the process of relaying information, people inevitably add their own subjective interpretations. By the time the message reaches the listener, it may be vastly different, leading to misunderstandings, barriers, and even hatred.
All things in nature have their own realms, as does human conduct. One's level of "realm" determines success or failure. Experience is learned, seniority is gained through experience, but "realm" is realized through enlightenment. The height of one's realm is independent of age; it depends on the diligence and wisdom of one's insight. The heart is the eye of wisdom; what one truly needs to polish is the "eye of the heart." For those skilled in using their inner insight, all things become teachers. When you perceive the world with your heart, the world will enter yours.
Life is never perfect; simplicity is best. May you possess a state of mind that remains gentle despite the world's coldness, and a smile that remains radiant despite the storms of life.