Do not let the one who loves you cry brokenly for you. Because you only have one chance to hurt them that deeply. After that, you will transform from someone indispensable to someone dispensable.
Opportunism is actually the most foolish behavior. Some people like to do good deeds in public while acting recklessly in private; even when they do something good, if it isn't recognized or praised, they simply give up. Little do they know that every little thing is seen by others. We do not act for the sake of others, but for ourselves. Truly wise people remain down-to-earth and consistent in thought and action.
Some changes do not require words; others will see them. If one day, what once moved your heart no longer touches you, and what once brought you sorrow no longer makes you cry, you will understand what time and life have given you, and what you have sacrificed for growth. Dancing alone on the path, stirring up emotions; in the cold night, no comfort can be found, blaming only the beauty of past vows that turned longing into an ache.
In truth, as long as a person is content, their heart will be as calm as still water.
Year after year, time passes like a polite yet heartless friend, smiling as they walk by, making you suffer, stay strong, struggle, feel disappointed, feel sentimental, and find hope. A real life becomes open-minded through tears; a simple life becomes fulfilled under the sun.
We can divide people into two categories: those willing to try, and those unwilling to try, who would rather sit aside crying and criticizing others for what they have lost in life.
Learn to recognize and navigate human selfishness. Do not be preoccupied with the selfishness of others; instead, learn to deal with it and use it to help you achieve your goals.
Friendship is a refreshing spring, the shared tears of common troubles, a lifeline during an exam, and the regret after a clash. Friendship is like a bottle of Pepsi—whenever you open it, it brings a smile to your face.
Treat those who constantly make things difficult for you as if they were your closest relatives in a state of madness; do not harbor resentment, but instead, treat them with more compassion.