In life, the moments that truly belong to us are few and far between. Most of the time, we are either repeating our own routines or mimicking the lives of others. If we set our survival goal merely to chase after how others live, it loses its meaning. True happiness is not about living like someone else, but about living according to one's own will.
I have witnessed death, and the stillness before it was almost terrifying. I cannot deny that I fear death; I fear passing away suddenly from an accident, leaving so many things undone, so many goals unreached, and so many wonders of the world untasted. I believe most people share this feeling.
After traveling for a while, they reached the edge of a vast forest that lay on the path to the capital. There were two roads: one would take seven days, and the other only two, yet no one knew which path was actually shorter. The two travelers sat beneath an oak tree, debating how much bread they should pack for the journey.
You do not need to agonize over how to please others. If you remain steadfast in believing in yourself, you will find that many people will naturally be drawn to you.
In this life, being able to contribute to society within my capacity and helping the helpless build better lives gives me a profound sense of meaning; I consider this my lifelong calling.
The realm of drinking: You are still raising your cup to invite the moon, while he has already forgotten who you are.
The realm of friendship: Master the principles of moderation, capacity, and constancy.