Some people ask: Since we are all unique, why do we need to change? Isn't it better to just be ourselves? However, adapting slightly to different occasions and different people can help us find our place in a group. This change is not necessarily a bad thing; in fact, it might even transform the course of your life.
When you realize your own shortcomings, try to change them. This is not necessarily difficult; by making small adjustments to align with your surroundings, you can encourage others to accept you. It can transform someone indecisive into someone capable of solving their own problems, or turn a reserved person into a cheerful one.
I remember a classmate of mine who was quite introverted. She disliked talking to others and rarely participated in collective activities. She was always alone, silent, and lonely. Despite being her classmate for an entire year, I almost never spoke to her. Had she tried to change herself back then, things might have been different: she could have laughed and talked with classmates, participated in activities together, and lived a much more joyful life.
Therefore, changing yourself is incredibly important. Often, Just a slight shift in attitude can change your destiny. While change is not easy, it is certainly not impossible. By simply trying to integrate into the collective, you will soon find yourself adapting to the people and things around you.
Try to change yourself so that others and the collective will like and accept you more easily. Who knows? It might even transform your destiny! Why not give it a try?
