After marriage, a boy treats his wife even better than before. At a gathering, friends joked: still so affectionate after marriage? He smiled and said: before marriage, many boys wanted to pursue her, and I had to be better than them to win her heart; after marriage, fewer men treat her well, so I must continue to treat her better to ensure she does not feel disappointed. After his words, all friends were silent, filled with admiration rather than ridicule.
Do you ever recall the times when we struggled yet persevered together? Looking back, we are far from the past, yet it feels familiar. You may remember our playful moments in the dormitory, teasing teachers in class, and seeking joys in the daily routines of school. Time passes, and those beautiful moments can only be cherished in memory. In a fleeting moment, those people and times have drifted away.
In life, go with the flow and find peace in your heart. With a calm mind, view life’s suffering with detachment, treat fame and wealth lightly, and maintain a balanced, positive attitude. Seek what is necessary and let go of what is not; do what must be done and refrain from what is unnecessary. There is no need to disguise yourself or flatter others—simply be your authentic self. Peace of mind is the most beautiful state of being. Do not expect, imagine, or force; let things follow their course, and what is destined will happen.
There is no perfect partner, only two people’s fifty percent each, forming a complete hundred percent together.
The people we meet and the experiences we have all carry their own significance.
I do not need anyone to tell me how to live. My choices have shaped who I am today. My stories, dreams, mistakes, and successes all belong to me.