We often unconsciously choose people we shouldn't love, marriages we shouldn't enter, positions we can't hold, or dreams we can't reach, thus falling into various life dilemmas. Mysteriously, these dilemmas are as inevitable as the sun rising in the east and setting in the west; they do not change based on our choices. Different choices merely lead to different degrees of hardship. All we can do is accept reality.
No matter how old you are, spend your birthday with your mother. If you don't, it suggests she has already passed away in your heart. After all, a birthday is also a celebration of the day she gave birth to you.
Never stop smiling, even when you are sad; perhaps someone will fall in love with you because of that smile.
10% of life is how you perceive it, while 90% is how you create it.
Since life is unpredictable, let us face it with equanimity, watching the clouds roll and the flowers bloom. This is a person's true grace and temperament.