One of life's compulsory lessons is to accept impermanence, while the elective lesson is to learn to let go of attachments. Life should be lived according to one's heart, or at least as close to one's true intentions as possible. If one cannot master one's mindset, one will be governed by it, drifting through an uncertain existence, which is a tragic way to live.
An easygoing person is often broad-minded, elegant, and visionary. Because of their easygoing nature, they are wise and can perceive the world with insight; because they are easygoing, they are humble and approach life with modesty. Unmoved by honor or disgrace, they watch flowers bloom and fall in the courtyard. Mastering easygoingness leads to wisdom, while enjoying it leads to enlightenment. Such people are cultured, communicative, grateful, and appreciative. Being easygoing is, in itself, a profound capability.
Be optimistic! Once your mindset changes, your body and spirit will follow. This upward force will keep you healthy and full of vitality.
An unhappy marriage is like a castle built on sand—it may look grand and sturdy, but it is always on the verge of collapse. Even without storms, it will eventually crumble; separation is only a matter of time.
If someone disregards you, there is no need to get angry or strive to prove your worth to them. There are many who will never notice you, and you cannot satisfy everyone. The best approach is to simply not care about those who do not care about you.
When you are sad, take a moment to embrace yourself. Forgive others, and forgive yourself. Do not struggle to forget someone; let time take its course. If time cannot help us forget those who should not be remembered, then what was the meaning of the years we lost?
View the world with a detached perspective, and you will realize that wealth and glory are but passing clouds; approach all things with contentment, and you will understand that all troubles stem from worldly desires.
