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有时候,问题很繁杂,答案却很简单。
错把绝不当勇气的人,人生路会越走越窄。小忍是一种修养,大忍则有一种企图。
没有结果的事情,一直惦记着,只会让你劳累;不属于你的东西,即使再美好,也只是会让你羡慕。所以,放下惦记,让自己轻松,去得到一个结果;放下羡慕,让自己也拥有美好。
有些东西的总量就只有那么多,别人如果得到的多了,那么分给你的自然也就是少了。在和人相处的时候也是这样,你如果顾虑别人的感受多了,那么你的感受被顾虑的也就少了。
痛苦随着对它关注程度的提高而增大,正是你的关注滋养了它。
该句使用条件结构表达注意力对情绪的放大作用。
Sometimes, problems can be complex, but the answers are surprisingly simple.
If you mistake someone who is not courageous as brave, your path in life will become narrower. Small patience is a form of self-cultivation, while great patience carries a certain ambition.
Holding on to things without results only exhausts you; things that do not belong to you, no matter how beautiful, will only make you envious. Therefore, let go of lingering thoughts to feel lighter and pursue meaningful outcomes; let go of envy so you can also embrace beauty.
The total amount of certain things is limited. If others gain more, naturally there is less for you. The same applies in interactions with people: if you are overly concerned about others' feelings, your own feelings will be less attended to.
Suffering grows as you focus more on it; it is your attention that nurtures it.
有时候,问题很繁杂,答案却很简单。
错把绝不当勇气的人,人生路会越走越窄。小忍是一种修养,大忍则有一种企图。
没有结果的事情,一直惦记着,只会让你劳累;不属于你的东西,即使再美好,也只是会让你羡慕。所以,放下惦记,让自己轻松,去得到一个结果;放下羡慕,让自己也拥有美好。
有些东西的总量就只有那么多,别人如果得到的多了,那么分给你的自然也就是少了。在和人相处的时候也是这样,你如果顾虑别人的感受多了,那么你的感受被顾虑的也就少了。
痛苦随着对它关注程度的提高而增大,正是你的关注滋养了它。
"as they are constantly influenced by others' emotions leading their thoughts into chaos and entanglement"
"One hour of anger can be as damaging as six hours of overtime."
"Why can emotional shifts lead to a loss of appetite and sleep"
"When you learn to make yourself happy, those around you will also become more peaceful"
"Why do emotions consume us so much?"