In the face of various helplessness on life's path, humor is the best way to escape difficulties; humor can resolve embarrassment.
Throughout life, we experience many things and meet many people. For wise people, they forget the shortcomings and faults of others, while remembering their kindness and virtues. They live a life of forgiveness and magnanimity.
The most sour feeling is not jealousy, but having no vinegar to eat, leaving one feeling sour inside.
外御其侮,莫如弟兄。
容人须学海,十分满尚纳百川。
阶下几点飞翠落红,收拾来无非诗料。
Some people are better understood alone; there is no need to be sad, because emotions cannot be forced. Those who love you will not leave; those who do not love you will eventually be lost. Experience tells you how to act; time teaches you how to judge people. Past oaths may have just been perfunctory; former enthusiasm may have just been temporary. Hearts have truth and falsehood, which time can witness; emotions have warmth and cold, which wind and rain can test.
Remember, A cloudy day does not necessarily mean it will rain! In life, many people meet, but few truly know each other; in living, many people are known, but few are truly relied upon. In this vast world, it is not that we lack a friend to talk to, but that we long for a friend who understands and reads us; among all living beings, it is not that we lack acquaintances, but that we crave a friend who suits us and empathizes with us.
A good life means doing the right thing and doing it well in each stage; do not think that drawing circles repeatedly is not progress.