While shouting empty slogans, the windows and doors of the soul often close simultaneously.
Regarding family: it is like a few discordant notes being skillfully combined; they might even create a beautiful melody, depending on how you appreciate them, though the performers are often enjoying themselves.
As long as you have peace of mind, any place is a good place. If someone has yet to cross over, do not let yourself escape first.
Troubles occur every day; if you do not pick them up, they will naturally vanish. Life is full of trivialities and mental burdens; let them come and go, and greet them with a calm heart. As the Zen gate says: Forget not the kindness of others, do not hold grudges, do not dwell on others' faults, and do not dwell on their past mistakes.
Humans do not actually fear punishment; being human is a profound experience in itself. Life is a journey that requires mindful experience. Some things cause entanglement when unclear and heartache when seen clearly. Life is like a speck of dust; on the surface, we seem to be in control, but we are actually governed by heaven, earth, and human ways. Many changes in life are beyond our control; one can only let things be. Perhaps one day, when you learn to cherish, some things will already be gone.