In life, one should not strive to take undue advantage of others; greed for small gains often leads to profound regrets.
To earn the respect of others, the first step is to respect oneself. By learning to understand and forgive, you will discover how beautiful the world truly is; it was simply our previous pickiness that clouded our view.
Be ordinary but not mediocre; be bold but not careless; speak with purpose but not emptily; think deeply but not chaotically; act decisively but not recklessly; be humble but not submissive; be modest but not vain; and be brave but not arrogant.
Happiness arises from the heart, the heart is shaped by events, and events are driven by actions. True happiness is a state of intoxication that stems from your own efforts and the wisdom gained through gains and losses.
Everything in nature has its own level of realization, and the same applies to how one conducts oneself. The depth of one's character determines success or failure. Learning provides experience, experiencing provides seniority, but true wisdom comes from enlightenment. This level of realization is not tied to age, but to the willingness to reflect and understand. The mind is the eye of wisdom; what one truly needs to polish is the eye of the heart. Those who master the art of perception can learn from all things; when you sense the world with your heart, the world enters your heart.
Your mindset determines your happiness and sorrow. Therefore, learn to transform a negative mindset to enjoy the beauty of life. Since we cannot change fate, we must learn to accept it gracefully and instead focus on changing what we can: our mindset. Truly extraordinary people know how to adjust themselves, maintaining a positive state of mind and remaining unburdened by trivial worries.