Clothes are expensive, and shoes are expensive too. If you like something, buy it; once you pass a certain age, your mindset changes, and everything feels different.
Learn to be indifferent, and only show kindness to those who treat you well.
Learn to be decisive: let go of those who must leave and keep those who should stay.
Learn to be firm and cut off what needs to be cut off.
Learn to be happier than before; even when facing difficulties, face them with a smile.
Learn to embrace solitude. No one will protect you like a treasure forever; the world is inherently lonely.
In life, when you reflect, you realize that besides life and death, everything else is trivial.
Life is a loan; nothing comes with us, and nothing can be taken away. We are just passing through this world, and everything we possess is merely borrowed, to be returned eventually. It is better to live according to your heart.
A girl can be sexy, pure, or charming, but she must never be mediocre.
Give yourself hope every day. Don't sigh over yesterday or worry about tomorrow; instead, strive to make today even better.
Never revolve your entire life around a man. No matter how deeply you love, learn to give him space; otherwise, excessive clinging may stifle him.
Never sacrifice your individuality for a man. Compromising doesn't make him love you more; in fact, men are more attracted to women with their own personalities.
Never give up your career for love. If you choose love and lose your career, you will have nothing if the love fades. But if you choose your career, even if love is lost, you still have the ability to support yourself and live a fulfilling life.
Do not attempt to live by depending on a man; no one will maintain enthusiasm for a parasite forever.
Do not be overly demanding. If you love him, cherish his efforts and plan for your future together. If you do not love him, leave with dignity so he doesn't think you were only interested in his wealth.
