Idealizing a partner in your heart can be a dangerous thing. Whether they hide their flaws too well or you have overly beautified them, both can lead to heartbreak. There are no perfect lovers, only two imperfect people writing a complete life together.
Growth is when you stop following trends blindly; maturity is when you stop forcing what isn't meant to be. Life is a journey of self-refinement, teaching us when to hold on and when to let go.
We feel exhausted when we waver between persistence and giving up; confused when we fall into negativity; unhappy when we demand too much; and pained when we cling to too many memories. Simply put, troubles arise from the inability to let go, to think clearly, to see through things, and to forget.