We often question why others do not understand or accept us. This often stems from being too self-centered, focusing only on ourselves and losing the ability to embrace others or enjoy and share life. What we truly need to change is our mindset. Love is like a pair of chopsticks; a man and a woman are each a single stick, and when fate brings them together, they become a pair. Life is tiring, half due to the struggle of existence and half due to comparison. Life is short. No matter how long we live, time flies by. Therefore, we should do what we love during our lifetime. Since the future is unpredictable, let us live each day as if it were our last. We should be persistent but not obsessive. Since many things in this world are unchangeable, we should learn to change what we can and adapt to what we cannot. It is much easier to change ourselves than to change the world. If something does not belong to you, there is no use in longing for it. Do not dwell excessively on people or things; let things take their natural course and maintain a positive attitude. Cherish the time spent with your loved ones. Wise judgment comes from experience, and experience often arises from errors in judgment. Life is magnificent; after crossing one peak, an even more stunning vista may await. Sometimes, behind seemingly disastrous events, there lies an unexpected happy ending. A famous scholar once said, "Those who only plan for themselves are not happy; happy people are those who also plan for others." Having integrity and not grasping what does not belong to you allows you to live a life of ease and freedom. I believe you are very happy because you have the choice to love me or not, whereas I can only choose to love, or even to love more.
