Those with grand ambitions are often driven by a powerful inner force and hold themselves to high standards. Whether in their studies or their careers, they demand excellence from themselves. Consequently, they are rarely crushed by difficulties; instead, they persist tenaciously toward their goals, unwavering in their resolve. This unwavering commitment often attracts the favor of fortune, paving the way to success.
The direction in which tears flow often reflects the trajectory of one's life: when tears flow inward, the heart accumulates strength, forging a more profound belief in oneself; when they flow toward pleading, the result is often stagnation and frustration; when they flow toward emotion, the left bank of life is destined to be filled with warmth and kindness. For those with self-control, tears possess the power to travel a thousand miles. Following the channel opened by these tears, you will eventually reach the vast sea.
Although many yearn for a peaceful and serene life, the real world flows like a great river, full of change and challenge. You must keep running just to stay in place; you must learn to endure grievances to withstand life's storms. A mature person can endure hardship and tolerate injustice. Who doesn't move forward while crying? Do not easily reveal your inner vulnerability; learn to bear all that you are responsible for. Do not easily complain about life's difficulties; learn to face the chaotic reality. Do not easily compromise with the world. If life makes you cry, strive to make yourself smile through persistence. As long as we can bear responsibilities, avoid evasion, cherish what we have, and maintain a strong heart, our lives will not be bleak.
Pushkin once wrote: "If life has deceived you, do not be sad, nor in anger! In a moment of discontent, restrain yourself, for joy is sure to come." How far is joy from us? In fact, joy is hidden in every small matter of our daily lives. Treat your inner self kindly, for you have the power to inflict pain on yourself, but also the power to create happiness—you are, after all, the master of your own life.
Why try so painfully to forget a person? Time will naturally help you let go. If time cannot make you forget someone you shouldn't remember, what meaning do our lost years have?"
