Life is like music; it must be composed using hearing, emotion, and instinct, not just hearing alone.
Life has many paths. Each path has a wonderful story, but not every path has a definite ending. In this life, as long as you have walked the road, that is enough. We need not overly care about the destination.
Our parents raised us from childhood, and it is rare for us to be deeply grateful to them; yet a stranger who helps us once may be cherished in our hearts forever. People who lack gratitude are truly despicable.
Everyone should keep a kind heart and good intentions, which is not wrong, but everything needs limits. As the old saying goes: "A dou of rice fosters gratitude, but a dan of rice fosters enmity." Everyone should understand the principle of "overdoing it is as bad as underdoing it" and apply it to life. Remember: The cloud is beautiful because of distance; when you get too close, it turns into fog. Learn to know when to stop.
Since that is the case, why not face things rationally? First, resolve your mood, so you can better resolve matters. If we cannot be masters of our mindset, we will ultimately become slaves of our emotions. Only with a good mood can our state be good, can we achieve twice the result with half the effort, and can life go smoothly.
A father and son passed by the entrance of a five-star hotel and saw a very luxurious imported car. The son said disdainfully to his father, "People who drive cars like this definitely have no knowledge!" The father replied lightly, "People who talk like that definitely have no money!" Do your views on things reflect your true inner attitudes?
Do not pass judgment on yourself or others too easily. What you see and hear may only be one side of the story.