Life is inevitably accompanied by gains and losses, joys and sorrows, which are often beyond our control and difficult to predict, arriving unexpectedly. What we can do is respond actively and adjust ourselves. When joyful, we should restrain ourselves from being arrogant or ostentatious; when sad, we should strive to control ourselves so as not to lose ourselves in pain. Regardless of gains, losses, joys, or sorrows, we should face them calmly: acknowledge what we gain without denial, and do not avoid what we lose. Calm handling is the best approach.
Love always hurts, and humans always have wounds. Emotions always touch the heart, and hearts always relate to feelings. Every relationship is connected to the soul, and every tear contains emotion. Whether man or woman, what we all desire is genuine love; whether old or young, what we all expect is a sincere heart. When moved, women care and men may cry; when heartbroken, children get angry and adults shed tears. Feelings cannot be fake, and hearts should not be hurt. Whether dealing with matters or people, we should be sincere. In dealing with others and affairs, we must be genuine. Hurting others inevitably hurts oneself; wounding feelings inevitably wounds the heart. Honesty and kindness are always virtuous behaviors. In this life, we will meet many people and experience many emotions. Some bring joy, while others bring sorrow.
To live with dignity and exhibit extraordinary qualities, one must change their mindset and dare to fight against fate. If things cannot be changed, change yourself; if you cannot persuade others, persuade yourself. If the mountain will not come to you, go to the mountain. Take care of your life and settle your mind; then life will be complete. Taking care of life means protecting the purity of life and cherishing ordinary living.
Be a simple person, peaceful yet persistent. Current efforts will become sediment, quietly paving the way to help you become a better person. Do not deceive others, because those you can deceive are usually those who trust you. There are no unpassable events, only unpassable moods. As long as you change your mood, the world becomes entirely different.
If the years are peaceful, nourish your body and mind; if the times are dark, seek more experience. The greatest confusion in life is not that no one understands you, but that you do not understand yourself. How can one possess without letting go? How can one see prosperity without enduring loneliness? The past, however beautiful, is just an empty talk; the difficult path under your feet points directly to tomorrow. Whatever fate gives you, good or bad, abundant or scarce, must be faced seriously and calmly. Life is called life because it is full of regrets, and truth is called truth because imperfections occasionally appear.
I asked about worry, and it told me it doesn't love me at all, asking me to tell you not to be delusional; Health sent a message to say it will never change toward you in this lifetime.
The past can fail, but the future must not; Work can fail, but character must not. Failure in work is temporary, while failure in character is a lifetime's regret.
