The root of pain often lies in the widening gap of differences. People who meet during a phase of compatibility gradually realize, over time, that they are not moving in the same direction. Such compatibility is merely a fleeting overlap at a broad fork in the road.
Longing is like a knife or a sword, capable of making one frail and thin. Is it not so? Observe her, lost in day and night thoughts, her appearance growing haggard, like a full moon whose light fades, gradually becoming a crescent.
In life, it is relatively easy to tolerate others' shortcomings and not too difficult to accept their differences. The hardest part is lacking the grace to tolerate others' talents. If you have flaws but I am excellent, I can包容 you. If you are eccentric and incompatible with me, I may be displeased but can still coexist with you. However, if you are talented and surpass my abilities, how can I bear it? One day, you will exceed me. Thus, base jealousy arises.
The skill of handling affairs is, to a large extent, the skill of handling emotions.