If you have ever felt discouraged by failure, please read on. Because achieving a goal is often not the most important thing. Let me explain.
Two young brothers decided to dig a deep hole behind their house. As they were working enthusiastically, two older boys stopped by to watch. "What are you doing?" one of them asked. "We intend to dig a hole all the way through the Earth!" one of the little brothers replied excitedly. The older boys laughed and told the little ones that digging through the Earth was impossible. After a long silence, one of the children picked up a jar filled with spiders, worms, and various insects. He removed the lid, displaying these wonderful discoveries before the mockers, and said softly and confidently, "Even if we can't dig through the Earth, look at the wonderful things we've discovered while digging!"
Their goal was overly ambitious, yet it drove them to start digging. This is the benefit of having a goal—it directs our path and, more importantly, motivates us to take real action!
However, not all goals will be fully realized, not all work will lead to success, not all relationships will last, not all expectations will be met, not all love will be eternal, and not all dreams will come true. When you fail to reach a goal, perhaps you can say: "That may be true, but look at the wonderful discoveries I made along the way! See the brilliance my efforts have brought to life!"
Life is essentially a process of digging. I firmly believe that what truly matters in the end is enjoying the journey.