61. Kindness is the foundation of a benevolent person. Their kindness can endure unprovoked harm and shallow arrogance; their humility is woven into patience, and their openness is found within compassion.
62. Do not hide your illness from a doctor, for doing so only harms yourself. Concealing an illness can lead to tragic consequences.
63. An optimistic and radiant smile not only brings joy to yourself but also cheers up everyone around you.
64. If we could approach the tasks we are weary of with the mindset of "this is my last day," we would discover that those once tedious days were actually beautiful and precious.
65. We often see people saying "let's meet in the next life" during a final farewell. But where is the next life? If you truly care for someone, cherish and act for their present life.
66. If a youth lacks ambition, much of life is wasted; if a young adult finds ambition, they can still make strides; if a middle-aged person becomes determined, they must not miss their opportunities; if an elderly person hides their ambition, they may instead choose to write books and enjoy a transcendent life.
67. Love is found in the mundane details of life: perhaps it is holding an umbrella for your lover to shield them from the rain, or lighting a lamp to illuminate their path home in the deep night.
68. Nothing in this world is ever perfect, and life is no exception. Because life is inherently imperfect, we find the drive to pursue meaning and the reason to exist.
69. Life is about taste, something that cannot be understood simply through the preaching of others. Everything in life can be distributed in various ways, but it must be done reasonably.
70. In truth, there are no debts in life. If others give to you, it is because they are happy to do so; if you give to others, it is because you are willing. Those who have loved without regret and can still respect each other even after a breakup are truly precious.
71. Life is like a dumpling; whether you are dragged into the water, thrown into it, or jump in yourself, if you haven't waded through muddy waters once in your life, you haven't truly matured.
72. Treat every person you encounter in life with heart. Do not look down on anyone; treat others with sincerity and regard them as old friends. Only when we give our true selves can we receive true sincerity in return.
73. Have you always been alone? Have you ever had a partner? I do not know what will become of me. Looking at myself in the mirror, I can only recognize these eyes on this aged face. Sometimes I feel I was born in the wrong era; perhaps we are both like ancient artifacts.
74. May love regrow like a mown meadow. It should grow in its own way, much like a child's teeth, hair, or nails—growing according to its own will.
75. Your kindness to others is like a piece of candy—once eaten, it is gone; but your unkindness is like a scar, which may remain forever.
76. We often question why others do not understand or accept us, but this is often because we are too self-centered, seeing only ourselves. Self-centeredness makes us tense and emotional, causing us to lose the opportunity to enjoy and share life. What truly needs changing is our capacity for openness.
77. Do not reveal all your innermost thoughts; they are your privacy and your wealth, whether they be good or bad.
78. Gradually, things fade; slowly, they are forgotten. That is how the world works. Familiar people fade if they are not cherished; familiar things are forgotten if they are not reminisced upon. The winds of time can fade the emotions in our hearts and cool our spirits; the hands of time can blur our vision of one another and fade the memories we hold. Some people are destined to become old acquaintances, and some paths are destined to be walked alone.
79. A person's unhappiness often begins with envying others.
80. Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and the sun will shine after the rain. If the rain persists after the rain, or if sorrow remains after sorrow, let us face this farewell with composure, smiling as we search for the version of you that may never appear again.