49. I am merely reminiscing about the past, forgetting that we are no longer our former selves. There is nothing extraordinary about loving someone who likes you. Loving someone you do not like will surely teach you something about life. Loving someone who blames you without reason will teach you the art of living.
50. Those with harsh words are often kind-hearted, while those with cruel hearts often have sweet words.
51. The kind of plots found in idol dramas are something we are not yet qualified to possess.
52. My life has been a total failure; in the third year of the Republic, I could not wait for rain, and in this life, I cannot wait for an "I love you."
53. When you truly love someone, that person will appear in your heart when you want to forget them most, and when you are at your saddest and most lost. Yet, you ponder and ponder, unable to decide whether to tell them your current feelings and troubles, because you care too much about their feelings and thoughts. Sometimes, the more you care, the easier it is to lose them and the easier it is to hurt yourself.
54. Love may be late, but it will never be absent.
55. Life is a performance that requires a hundred rehearsals to achieve a single moment of beauty.
56. The way to live in harmony with others is: endure a word, and the root of trouble will never grow; forgive a slight, and never strive for dominance; endure a moment, and a pit of fire turns into a pool of white lotuses; take a step back, and it becomes the path of life's cultivation.
57. To understand choice is to shed tears. To grieve a parting is to remain free-spirited.
58. The rainbow that rises from the rainy tears of life is the most magnificent.
59. Send those excuses away; tell them they are dismissed. You no longer need excuses. Most of the time, we limit ourselves because we rely on various excuses instead of improving our lives and striving for growth. A sincere person can only accept sincerity, not lies; a generous person can tolerate temporary stinginess but will not tolerate long-term greed.
60. One should know: be low-profile to be elegant, and high-profile in action to be excellent; be simple to find peace, and thorough to ensure safety; be somewhat muddled to be carefree, and shrewd to be worry-free; be conscientious to have no shame, and exert all effort to have no regrets; be innocent to gain friends, and be serious to be a reliable colleague; be natural like water, and be steadfast like a mountain.
61. One cannot grow in happiness, for happiness makes people superficial; we grow and transform through pain, which allows us to understand life more deeply.
62. What is called "letting go" is the removal of discrimination, sense of right and wrong, preoccupation with gain and loss, and obsession. All things are for our use, but none belong to us. What we must discard is all attachment, clearing the mind and letting go of greed, anger, and desire; do not despair at life's suffering, nor become obsessed with life's pleasures.
63. Do not expect, do not imagine, and do not force. Let nature take its course; if it is destined, it will surely happen.
64. Motivational life philosophy: Instead of trying to change others, it is better to change yourself first.
