76. When a woman stops being coquettish, she has likely stopped loving you; when a man stops checking in, he has likely found someone else.
77. Life always contains a page of reluctance, deep and warm. The beauty of time lies in the traces of years etched between encounters and partings. Time is a wordless song; what lives on in the heart, besides longing, is hope.
78. One's attitude toward work must be upright and serious, leaving no room for carelessness. Preparation must be meticulous and sufficient; a tiny error can lead to a massive failure.
79. Clever people often play tricks, but if someone is truly intelligent yet remains humble, they will achieve great things.
80. People without privacy are suffering; even in front of those you love most, one should maintain some boundaries.
81. Sometimes we feel exhausted because we cannot let go of our "face." Excessive vanity blinds our true selves, making us unable to distinguish needs from desires, treating the opinions of others as our highest standard and their praise as our ultimate reward, thus losing ourselves in the maze of secularity. If you set aside your vanity and live authentically, you will find that life is not as heavy as it seems.
82. True wealth is not necessarily found in bank deposits, land, or gold and silver, for these cannot be held alone and cannot be taken at death. Only faith, contentment, joy, conscience, interpersonal connections, and wisdom are your true wealth! Such wealth benefits not only the individual but also society; it serves not just for a moment, but for a lifetime and beyond.
83. Time can change landscapes and appearances, but it cannot force the heart to grow naturally.
84. To complain of poverty is because one lacks industriousness; to complain of ignorance is because one lacks the effort to learn. Results follow effort; without giving, there can be no success.
85. If you are not afraid to lose, the outcome might not be a win; but if you are afraid to lose, the outcome will surely be a loss.
86. People struggle both in company and when alone; ultimately, the issue lies within the individual themselves.
