33. Treat sincere people with sincerity, and treat hypocritical people with superficial politeness.
34. "Tomorrow follows tomorrow, and how many tomorrows there are!" Tomorrow is always out of reach. Those who pin their hopes on tomorrow may achieve nothing, wasting their time and life in the process.
35. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things. Rather than saying others cause you pain, it is better to say your own cultivation is insufficient. If you do not create trouble for yourself, others can never trouble you, for it is your own heart that cannot let go. We must be grateful to those who bring adversity into our lives. To change others, one must first know, conquer, and change oneself. Every wound is a step toward maturity.
36. All paths can only be understood in their distance and twists once they are actually walked upon.
37. I may no longer be young, but my soul remains pure.
38. We were simply unsuitable because we were too young.
39. One should be persistent but never obsessive. There are many things in this world that cannot be changed; we should learn to change what can be changed and adapt to what cannot. Changing the world is difficult, but changing oneself is easier. If something is not meant for you, no amount of liking it will help. Do not dwell too much on certain people or things; let nature take its course and face everything with the best mindset.
40. See a world in a grain of sand, and a heaven in a wild flower.
41. No one knows what the future holds. We always try to change our fate, just as Steve Jobs said: "You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward." Life is short, so strive to be healthy, happy, and joyful, and occasionally indulge in life. Life is like a road; one must walk through the desolation to create a landscape of blooming flowers.
42. Chao gua san, ye gua si, bu xiang bu wai gua yi ri.
43. Scars should not become a reason to create more wounds.
44. Life lasts only a few decades, flowing like water. Having passed through the innocence of childhood, the vibrancy of youth, and the passion of young adulthood, we now enter the calm of middle age. Looking back at the ups and downs, the widths and narrows, and the stormy paths of life, one cannot help but feel a whirlwind of emotions.
45. Life's challenges are not meant to paralyze you, but to help you discover your true self.
46. If someone hasn't contacted you for years and suddenly tries to get close again, don't overthink it—just get used to it. It doesn't mean anything significant.
47. It is okay to let your children see you cry.
