21. If Wei Shu had not listened to Zheng Xiu's "kind advice," she would not have met the tragic end of being neglected by King Huai. Zheng Xiu's ability to both eliminate her rival and gain the King's favor lay in her insight into Wei Shu's heart, persuading her according to her own desires. While it appeared she was helping Wei Shu win more affection, she was actually undermining their bond.
22. Between men and women, besides love, there is also giving and the duties one ought to fulfill.
23. Tolerance is like sunshine, while criticism is like a cold wind; sunshine is far more welcome than the wind.
24. We refrain from infringing on others to ensure that others do not infringe on us.
25. Love is like a precious piece of porcelain. Once a crack appears, no matter how advanced the repair technique, it can never be truly restored to its original state.
26. Men fear being praised, while women fear being coaxed. When a wife asks a question, she often hopes to hear sweet words from her husband. If it makes her happy, why shouldn't a husband occasionally forgo blind honesty?
27. Has someone taught you how to love, only to stop loving you? Is there someone you constantly try to let go of, yet cannot help but reminisce about? Is there someone you wish happiness for so deeply that you are willing to be unhappy yourself? Is there someone you smiled at when leaving, only to burst into tears the moment you turned away?
28. Those you hate, you shall not meet in the next life, so do not waste your time on them; those you love, you shall also not meet in the next life, so cherish them dearly in this one. The cold night cannot hide the sorrows of the past; the bright moon cannot reconstruct the image of the one you miss; the desolate winter wind cannot blow away the pain in your heart.
29. Motherly love is the earnest persuasion when one is lost; it is the heartfelt farewell when one travels far; it is the gentle smile when one is helpless and alone.
30. Those working envy those studying, while those studying envy those working. We often fail to cherish what we have and regret it only after it is lost.
31. The path of life is bumpy and winding, but no matter how crooked the journey, time remains straight and fair to everyone.
32. Often, people overlook their own happiness while being dazzled by the happiness of others, seeking what they cannot have and causing themselves unnecessary trouble.
33. Life itself is vicissitudinous enough; if we cannot offer ourselves hope, it would be too cruel. May our souls find warmth and solace.
34. Persistence is victory. The more setbacks we face, the more opportunities we gain. Obstacles are the driving force for progress; every time we rise after a fall, we move one step closer to our goal.
35. Life is inherently fair; effort and reward are proportional, though the forms of reward may differ. The more you give, the more you receive. Just as planting seeds in spring leads to a bountiful harvest in autumn if nurtured carefully.
36. Politeness and civility are our first "business cards" in society and our "ID cards" representing our image. Good grades do not guarantee future success; if one can cultivate the habit of treating others with respect—achieving both internal and external refinement—it adds another weight to the scale of success.
37. Those who can maintain inner peace are the ones who truly possess strength.
38. To my once ignorant youth, and to my current unapologetic and open self.
39. Stand tall with integrity, welcome hope with vitality, add strength with courage, realize ideals with talent, and build prosperity with popularity.
40. Never go out of your way to explain yourself, even in the case of a misunderstanding. As long as you understand, it is enough; there is no need to seek understanding from those who do not matter. Most of the time, we can only rely on ourselves. Having no background, no influential mentors, or no prestigious schooling does not matter. What matters is which path you resolve to take, who you aspire to become, and how you intend to conquer your own laziness.
