13. This is what destiny is. A long-time girlfriend suddenly breaks up, the reason being simple: there is no fate in this life. Thus, one finds peace. In this vast world, there will always be someone who is devoted to you, and there will always be a love that is yours. What is there to force?
14. When I lose my temper and tell you not to come to me, it is always a lie; you must come and find me. Do not take my words literally when I am angry. When I say it is not good, it is actually good; when I say I do not want it, I actually do; when I say I do not want to, I actually do—do you understand? In this world, the greatest taboo is perfection. Look at the moon: once it reaches fullness, it immediately begins to wane. Look at the fruit on the tree: once it is fully ripe, it is about to fall. Leaving a little imperfection allows things to endure.
15. Life requires goals and direction. No matter what mindset you adopt toward life, as long as you do not deviate from your core purpose, you can feel the sweetness of life in the passing years.
16. In social interactions, pay special attention to a "weakness mentality." Toward the strong, there is no need to feel inferior, belittle yourself, or act submissively. Understand that while positions may differ, dignity is equal; losing your psychological footing will not earn you respect. Toward the weak, there is no need to be condescending, disdainful, or arrogant. Understand that if you do not respect others, you do not deserve their respect. Fear is not respect; do not let a weakness mentality transform into a petty mindset.
17. If today cannot be transformed into tomorrow, it will surely be the end of your life.
18. An expert is defined as one who knows more and more profoundly about things that are increasingly small and rare.