Some parents focus too much on their children's academic performance while neglecting an equally important ability—self-care. Some children are not lazy or unwilling to do housework; rather, whenever they try, their parents often say, "Just focus on your studies; you don't need to do these chores." Over time, some students struggle with independent living when they start boarding school. A friend of mine is such an example. She often looks unkempt, and the clothes she washes herself are not clean. Every weekend, she has to bring a pile of clothes home for her mother to wash, while her academic ranking remains around the hundredth place.
In some countries, children's independence is developed earlier. For example, in the United States, many parents gradually cut off financial support when their children turn eighteen, encouraging them to live independently and build their own lives. In contrast, some families continue to overprotect and provide for their children. Although this comes from love, it may weaken their ability to adapt to society later. Such parenting is not truly helpful; instead, it may hinder growth.
Because we have youth, we stand at a new starting line every day to face challenges. Because we have youth, we can freely pursue our dreams and work hard for them. Because we have youth, we are not afraid of failure and believe everything can start over. Everyone has their own youth, and the direction of that youth should be determined by ourselves.