If your mind is not on a book while reading, your eyes will not look carefully. When the heart and eyes are not focused and you merely read casually, you certainly cannot remember, and even if you do, it will not last. The most important thing is for the heart to be present. When the heart has arrived, the eyes will naturally follow.
Do not waste your time on the wrong people or things. Be cautious when choosing partners, companions, or friends, for time cannot be recovered. Personal striving should focus on the right direction.
Do not dwell on gains and losses, nor compare having with having not.
When feeling inexplicably irritable or low, it may be because the world is too oppressive or we are overwhelmed by vanity, making it hard to face life lightly. In moments of loss, one longs for the warmth of a simple "Don't fear, I am here."
There is often an unbridgeable distance between reality and ideals. Rather than falling into pain through unrealistic pursuits, it is better to understand yourself correctly and find your own path. Young people should strive for beautiful dreams, but it is more important to find your own way based on self-awareness.
Time seems endless, yet it passes like marbles being removed one by one. Once we realize the finitude of time, we understand the importance of cherishing it. We should prioritize the most important and worthwhile tasks within our limited time to avoid future regrets.
The world is not always peaceful; one must keep running just to stay in place. Maturity means being able to endure both hardship and grievance. Do not easily expose your vulnerability or complain about life's messiness. Learn to face the chaotic reality and find a reason to smile through persistence. By being resilient, undeterred, and appreciative, life will not feel empty.
Life is like a mirror; if you smile at it, it smiles back at you. It is better to move forward with a smile and age gracefully. May the years be as gentle as flowers and as warm as water.
We are accustomed to criticizing external things like food and clothing, yet we often neglect to examine our own thoughts. After awareness comes the need to cultivate the capacity for tolerance and acceptance—a cultivation that must be achieved through self-discipline.
To conquer the world, one must first conquer oneself. "Knowing what to do and what not to do" is the prerequisite for great achievements. As Gorky said, "Even a small amount of self-restraint can make a person powerful." By overcoming bad habits, one becomes stronger.
Character determines one's lifestyle and attitude. Your spontaneity, stability, flexibility, and inner depth collectively shape how you approach life.
