The scale of the world, the joys and sorrows of life, and the quality of one's emotions all depend on one's perspective. In this materialistic world, try to elevate your viewpoint to observe: increase the height of your thoughts, the depth of your soul, the breadth of your knowledge, and the purity of your heart, so that you may embrace a happy life. Standing at a higher vantage point, learn to enjoy the tranquility and beauty in everyday life.
Avoiding intimacy is often the deepest longing for it. Just as a child who craves an embrace may resist when it finally comes after a long wait, many people handle intimacy in relationships by withdrawing, eventually becoming strangers to one another. If we can recognize the sadness and fear behind someone's avoidance, a sincere and heartfelt embrace can break down their defenses.
There is an eternal distance between reality and ideals, one that may never be bridged even in a lifetime. While ideals are beautiful, reality can be harsh. Instead of struggling to bridge this gap, it is better to understand yourself truly and find the life that belongs to you. Young people should strive for beautiful dreams, but avoid falling into the trap of impractical pursuits that cause suffering. Recognizing yourself and finding your own path is far more important.
Keep moving forward and do not look back. When you go with the flow, your mind will gradually become clear. To turn a detour into a straight path is clever, for you have found a shortcut; but to turn a straight path into a detour is being broad-minded, for you have enjoyed more scenery. Always maintain a heart of tolerance and gratitude. Tolerance is a virtue and a form of wisdom, as vast as the ocean that accepts all rivers.