When Einstein was sixteen, he had failed several subjects due to spending all his time with a mischievous group of children. One weekend morning, he was holding a fishing rod, ready to go fishing with them, when his father stopped him and calmly said, “Einstein, you play all day and fail your classes. Your mother and I are very concerned about your future.”
“What's there to worry about? Jack and Robert also failed, yet they still go fishing,” Einstein replied.
“My child, You must not think like that,” his father said lovingly. “In our hometown, there is a fable I want you to listen to carefully.”
“Two cats were playing on a roof when one accidentally fell, holding the other, into a chimney. When they climbed out, one cat's face was covered in soot, while the other's face was clean. The clean cat saw the soot-covered cat and thought its own face was also dirty and ugly, so it rushed to the river to wash. Meanwhile, the black-faced cat saw the clean cat and assumed its face was clean too, strutting along the street.”
“Einstein, no one can be your mirror; only you can be your own mirror. Using others as your mirror may turn even a genius into a fool.” Hearing this, Einstein felt ashamed, put down his fishing rod, and returned to his room.