Habits can determine a person's destiny; this is no exaggeration. The accumulation of knowledge, the growth of talent, and the improvement of character are all closely linked to the continuous repetition of good habits. Good habits are often the accumulation and reflection of a strong character and high quality. Habits formed in the subconscious aid in achieving one's goals. Consider this: how can someone who lives a lazy and irregular life discipline themselves to work diligently? How can someone who does not read or care about the world possess a broad mind and vision? How can someone who is always self-righteous communicate and cooperate with others? And how much wisdom and judgment can someone who fails to think independently and merely follows the crowd possess?
When you cannot help but argue with someone during a conflict and thereby create an enemy, you gain more than just an adversary; the mental threat you endure will be ten or even a hundred times greater than the actual threat they pose. Conversely, when you move an enemy with your noble character and turn them into a friend, you gain more than just a friend; the mental joy and relief you experience will be ten or even a hundred times greater than what they actually provide.
Ultimately, the power to determine whether one is happy lies in one's own hands. Some say happiness is waking up in the morning to see a ray of sunlight falling perfectly on the pillow. Happiness is him holding my hand tightly while crossing the street. Happiness is sitting on the back of his old bicycle, swinging my legs, and watching the wind ruffle his short hair. Happiness is having someone to enjoy a grand meal with when happy, and having someone pat your shoulder and offer a warm cup of coffee when you are sad.
God is always ready to forgive those who frequently repent and make amends. Regardless of the time or occasion, as long as you realize your mistake, you can apologize at any time. An apology can be direct or subtle; as long as the attitude is sincere, the method does not matter.
