Baruch's advice is: “When in doubt, follow your heart.”
I really love you. Everything can start over except youth. Many things tied to youth are beautiful, but once youth is gone, they seem foolish.
Life is often not as smooth as imagined. In fact, difficulties make up most of life. Everyone faces problems that are hard to solve, and may also encounter turning points at the most difficult moments. Everyone has memories that are hard to let go of and forget. If you care too much, you should learn to let go. There is no need to worry about unchangeable facts; history does not repeat itself, and time cannot flow backward.
If you can recognize your own shortcomings as clearly as you see those of others, your life will become extraordinary.
The length of life is limited. To carry more “water,” simply widening the channel is not enough; you must also increase its depth and strengthen the foundation and surroundings.
With the right way of thinking, problems become simple; with a different perspective, things become easier; with a better mindset, life becomes more wonderful; treating others with empathy makes life more beautiful. Flexibility brings greater ease in living.
Separation is a sorrowful word. I have experienced countless separations, but none have made me feel such reluctance and sadness. I am afraid that I may never see you again, and that in your memory I will be like an autumn leaf drifting away in the wind.
In the same Grand View Garden, Granny Liu is joyful while Lin Daiyu is sorrowful. In the same era, Li Yu sighs: “问君能有几多愁，恰似一江春水向东流。” Su Dongpo sings proudly: “大江东去，浪淘尽，千古风流人物。” Under the blue night sky and bright moon, some raise their cups in invitation, some drink alone in sorrow, and some feel deep homesickness. The moon of one's hometown is always the brightest. The scenery is the same; what differs is the mood. Do not let loss dominate your life. Give yourself a good mood, and the world will smile at you; give others a good mood, and life will become warmer.
