Learn to be a wise person: You were not born into a wealthy family with the fate of a prince or princess, so do not adopt the melancholy and hesitation that only they can afford. You do not have the luxury of time and money to gaze at the sky; you must strive, carrying the burdens of family and life. Do not waste your time on complaints and grievances; no one has wronged you. Do not compare yourself to the protagonists in dramas who possess extraordinary beauty and opportunities. Only through inner strength can you face life with composure.
Life is like tea—one only knows its richness after tasting it; life is like a journey—one only knows its depth after walking it; years are like wine—one only knows the dream after waking from the intoxication. To live is to enjoy the process. Standing by the river of time, through seasons of warmth and cold, all is unsaid. As long as there is warmth in the heart, one can smile at the vicissitudes of the world and the falling of flowers without regret, simply by being grateful. With more tranquility comes more breadth and composure. May the past be like smoke, and may you find peace with a smile.
Every day, we nitpick our food, clothing, and tools, as well as our friends and family, yet we never question the thoughts within our own minds. We blindly believe whatever they tell us. Once we become aware, we must cultivate the capacity to embrace and accept. This is a discipline that no one can grant you; you must cultivate it yourself.
If you can argue like a couple, converse like friends, flirt like first loves, and protect each other like siblings, then you are destined to be together. Rather than waiting for someone to love you, learn to love yourself more.
Your life today was determined by your decisions three years ago; if you continue living the same way, three years from now, your life will remain unchanged. Life is not meant for repetition. Dear, start changing today and find what you truly desire.
If you cannot listen, you cannot communicate.
The broadband is not wide, making surfing a struggle; for her sake, one is worn away.
It is not pitiable to be confused when you know it; the most pitiable state is being confused without even realizing it.
