I see and accept the pain of betrayal and deception, and in doing so, I let go of the need to cling to it. It is merely an emotion! It comes and goes; there is no need to avoid, hide, or suppress it. Simply "allow" it to be. Do not seek justice from others; instead, learn to see through things to find inner peace and avoid unnecessary troubles. By stepping back and considering others, great matters become small. If one lacks this patience, conflicts arise, leaving only more discontent in the heart. Those destined to meet in this life do not necessarily have to love or stay together; sometimes, appreciation is enough. Some love you but cannot offer you a home. The most enduring affection is not mutual torment in the name of love, but being each other's companion and sunlight. If I were that delicate and graceful lady gathering lotuses in the river, would you be that free and handsome scholar playing the flute? Bending down to play with the lotus seeds, the seeds are as clear as water, with eyes shimmering like autumn waters. That moment of tenderness and bashfulness—has it ever brought a hint of fragrance to your heart? When you find an employee who is fully committed to their work, you should pay them double, for they can perform the work of three people. Having been a CEO for many years, becoming someone else's subordinate no longer holds any appeal for me. Conversely, some people have modest desires yet are very practical; while working hard, they also notice the subtle joys and happiness around them. They often gain more intangible yet meaningful things than those labeled as "successful." The things that truly hold value are what deserve our choice. However, you must realize that the most valuable things often cannot be measured by price.
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我看见并接纳，我有被背叛和被欺骗的痛苦感受，进而放下对它的需要。不就是一种情绪嘛！来了就会走，不要躲避、藏匿或是压抑。只是去“允许”就可以了。 不要向别人讨回公道，要学会看透，内心才会平静，从而避开诸多烦恼。退一步为他人着想，大事化小；若小不忍则必生冲突，最终只会让内心更加不快。 世间的有缘人，不一定非要相爱相守，学会欣赏或许更重要。有些人虽爱你，却无法给予你归宿。最隽永的感情并非以爱之名互相折磨，而是彼此陪伴，成为对方的阳光。 我若是那玲珑清婉、涉江采莲的女子，你，会是那洒脱俊朗、横笛而吹的书生吗？低头弄莲子，莲子清如水，秋水盈盈眼盈盈，那一低头的温柔，那一低头的娇羞，可曾将一袖暗香盈上你的心头？ 当你遇到一个全心投入工作的员工时，应当给予他双倍的报酬，因为他能胜任三个人的工作。 担任了多年的 CEO 后，成为他人的下属对我而言已不再具有吸引力。 与此相反，一些人欲望不高却很实际，在努力工作的同时，也注重留意身旁细微的快乐与幸福。他们比成功人士获得的无形却有意义的东西会多很多。 真正有价值的东西才是最值得我们选择的。但你要知道，最有价值的东西通常都是不能以价钱来衡量的。
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The most valuable things often cannot be measured by price.
