People who are happy in life are more likely to forgive others. Perhaps because they do not dwell on forgivable conflicts and contradictions, they maintain a good mindset and the life they hope for. Hatred creates a vicious cycle. The saddest thing in life is when someone you care about cannot resist the call of fate and leaves, and you are powerless to hold them back.
People feel mentally exhausted because they often waver between persistence and giving up, unsure of their choices. In truth, I laugh easily and cry easily. But when I laugh, it is carefree, and when I cry, it is painfully deep. Happiness has neither tomorrow nor yesterday; it does not dwell on the past nor long for the future—it exists only in the present.
The past does not return, and what returns is no longer perfect. If you are not strong, who are you showing weakness to? Facing complex life with complex emotions, walking complex paths, one should adopt a carefree attitude and live life with ease. Occasionally reminiscing may make life seem regressive. Expectations, waiting, failure—life is inherently tangled. It's not that we are incompatible, but that others may be more suitable.
Life often teases us: the longer you wait for something, the farther it drifts; the more attached you are to someone, the deeper they may hurt you. Therefore, do not over-wait or cling excessively. Learn to let go of futile waiting and fruitless attachment. Only the happiness and joy of the present truly last.
If you hesitate indecisively in the desert, you will remain trapped. The era of rigid routines is gone. Many who change careers or remarry are making the right choice and achieving success. But before any change, careful thought and weighing pros and cons are necessary. Rash actions or passive compromises are doomed to fail.
Unintentional opportunism is something everyone experiences and is understandable. But those who deliberately take advantage of situations repeatedly will completely lose the trust of others, with poor outcomes.
True love is not finding someone you can live with, but someone you cannot live without.
Stop being pretentious; life will not smile at you just because you are young.