A person without privacy lives in pain; even before those you love most, you should maintain a certain boundary.
You once only liked plain water, but you added carbonation because cola seemed refreshing, and added sugar because orange juice looked sweet. Because you constantly compare yourself to others, you end up wanting everything, eventually losing sight of what you truly desire. Sometimes, the happiness others possess is not meant for you. Only when you shed those "carbonations" and "sugar coatings" do you become yourself. It is often when everything is lost that you realize what you truly want.
Those who are overly calculating and stingy in their youth may suffer from mental exhaustion in their old age. Don't overthink or over-calculate; human plans cannot surpass fate. Life is simple: "Do good deeds and do not ask about the future." Being tolerant, magnanimous, and accepting small losses is a blessing.
Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, and love when you should love. Life is short; do not leave yourself with regrets.
Our greatest mistake is giving our worst personalities and most terrible sides to those closest to us.
Resistance is everywhere. When facing resistance, the priority is to confront reality and resolve it. If you only dwell on petty grievances, you will only cause yourself trouble and suffering, hurting relationships and even creating enmity.
Do not be discouraged. Life is like an EKG; a perfectly flat line only means you are gone.