Even if you do your best, there will still be people who criticize you; even if you are at your worst, you may still hear praise. Therefore, there is no need to care too much about external judgments, to fall into the gaze of others, or to distort your true self in order to please the world.
The realm of life lies in associating with noble people, meeting refined individuals, and spending leisure time with loved ones.
Marriage should be approached with caution, and divorce requires even greater care. If marriage can be seen as a momentary mistake made in haste, then divorce should not be easily decided due to minor disagreements.
Wise people tend to think positively about everything. There are two important states in life: truth and contentment. Understanding truth helps one live clearly; understanding contentment helps one live peacefully. Being obsessed with fame and fortune leads to bondage by them; caring too much about others’ opinions leads to emotional ups and downs. The more desires one has, the more constraints arise; the fewer desires, the greater freedom.
Within emotional attachment lie unspoken and beautiful memories like a fading yet breathtaking story. Once, everything was for you alone. Even if one day the paper filled with emotions becomes weathered by time and words turn yellow, I would still be willing to hold a gentle heart, writing eternity with the pen and permanence with ink, turning our encounter into the most beautiful legend in the world.
How can one remain in a slightly intoxicated state through life, allowing oneself to quietly shed tears in front of a cup of wine.
In a lifetime, mistakes in action can be corrected, but mistakes in words may never be undone.
Life is like a mirror: if you smile at it, it will smile back at you.