People often lament the unfairness of fate: why are some born into luxury While others are destined for hardship? In society, it is incredibly difficult for a girl without power or influence to forge a career. While some envy prosperity, they often overlook the existence of poverty and struggle. Is being trapped in a cycle of hardship truly a matter of destiny?
When asked whether I believe in fate, I must answer honestly: I do. It is a fact that some are born into wealth while others are born into poverty. However, if you ask if one is predestined to be poor forever, I would say: not necessarily. I believe in fate, but I do not surrender to it.
From an economic perspective, wealth follows a "snowball effect," where larger accumulations grow faster and capture more resources. Similarly, the "Matthew effect" in psychology explains how those with existing advantages find it easier to achieve further success. These socioeconomic patterns are undeniable.
While we cannot choose our family of origin—a form of "random fairness"—we can choose our response. Do not rely on the hope of sudden wealth or cinematic encounters; those are mere fantasies. The only way to change your reality is through continuous effort. If you wish to escape the cycle of being a "small snowball," you must work far harder than those born with every advantage. I believe in fate, but I refuse to let it define me.