Facing life, the foolish only sigh and retreat, while the wise strive and forge ahead.
In real life, parents often complain that their children are "disobedient." While children bear some responsibility, the primary reason is that parents lack prestige in their eyes. "Prestige" refers to authority and reputation, characterized by will and obedience. Parental prestige is demonstrated when children respect, love, and trust their parents, and accept their requests voluntarily and without hesitation.
One should maintain moderation in all things. Pride, desire, ambition, and joy should all be balanced, avoiding excess, indulgence, or extremes.
Many people speak incessantly without thought, rarely considering others' feelings or the potential consequences. Some, driven by a straightforward nature, frequently vent their grievances. Although these conversations seem humanizing, they overlook the fact that not everyone can keep a secret. It is often only when private matters become ammunition for opponents that they realize their mistake in regret.
In conduct, one should have keen eyes, a clear mind, a diligent body, elegant interests, and a firm will.
Approaching others with hypocrisy will alienate even your relatives, whereas treating others with honesty can bring even those with past grievances closer to you.
Even though many know that flattery is a counterfeit coin, some still engage in the trade.