该句使用比较级结构突出两种行为的重要性差异。
Mutual destruction among kin, like boiling beans while burning the stalks.
Between elders and juniors, inside and outside the family, rules should be strict and language should be clear and firm.
By restraining emotions with patience, even sudden misfortunes can be endured, avoiding countless further troubles.
Listen carefully to customers' buying signals—if you are attentive enough, customers often give hints when they are ready to purchase. Listening is more important than speaking.
Confidence in your product is essential for a salesperson. This confidence is transmitted to customers. If you do not believe in your product, your customers will not believe in it either. Customers are not persuaded merely by logical arguments, but more by your deep conviction.
One mistake brings new awareness of life; one misfortune brings greater maturity in understanding the world; one hardship deepens the comprehension of life itself. To understand life, one must understand failure, misfortune, setbacks, and pain. When the heart is sunny, even rain feels like sunshine; when the heart is cloudy, even sunshine feels like rain. I do not think about whether I will succeed; since I have chosen the distant road, I simply move forward through wind and rain.
骨肉相残，煮豆燃萁。
长幼内外，应以严明的规范与言辞加以约束。
以忍耐控制情绪，即便遇到横祸，也能避免无数灾难。
倾听客户的购买信号——如果足够专注聆听，当客户决定购买时，往往会给出明确暗示。倾听比表达更为重要。
对产品的信心是销售人员的必要条件。这种信心会传递给客户。如果你自己都不相信产品，客户自然也不会信任它。客户被说服的原因，往往不只是逻辑，更是你坚定的信念。
一次失误，会让人对生活多一层醒悟；一次不幸，会让人对世界多一分成熟；一次磨难，会让人对人生理解更深一层。要读懂人生，就必须读懂失败、不幸、挫折与痛苦。心情晴朗时，雨也是晴天；心情阴郁时，晴天也像雨天。我不去想是否能够成功，既然选择远方，便只顾风雨兼程。