不能自我审视的人，也无法评判他人。

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In life, besides focusing on one's own existence, one should also pay attention to the existence of others. Equality exists between individuals; never impose on others what you would not want for yourself.

There is a common psychology: "Respect me an inch, and I will respect you a foot." It seems as if people only get along when the other party takes the first step; otherwise, they remain strangers. In reality, there is no harm in being the first to bow. The essence of coexistence lies in empathy: you will receive from others the same attitude you give them.

Those who cannot control their tongues not only hurt others but also invite trouble. Prudence in speech does not mean staying silent; it means speaking when necessary and remaining quiet when one should. When offering advice, if you disregard the other person's self-esteem, even the best words are futile.

Make an effort to listen to others; it is an effective way to leave a lasting impression on them.

As the ancients said, "Know yourself and know your enemy, and you will win a hundred battles." Similarly, a Western proverb states, "The wearer of the shoe knows where it pinches."

Philosophers have noted, "He who cannot judge himself cannot judge others." The Greeks also said, "The most difficult thing is to judge oneself." Clearly, understanding oneself is an eternal subject that people have valued throughout history.

Arrogant people are often prone to self-importance. They overestimate their abilities and may fall due to negligence. In reality, many people, much like Ma Su, suffer from excessive pride, which ultimately harms both themselves and others.