Find your life’s mission and listen to your inner voice; these matter far more than the expectations and judgments of others. Return to your inner self, understand your needs, and become the person you wish to be. To live is to be the master of oneself. — From Buddhist Teachings on Being Human
Mastering oneself means always keeping a clear heart and an open, bright mind. Look at problems from a higher perspective and think further ahead. Learn to put yourself in others’ shoes when handling matters. Be neither greedy nor jealous, neither flattering nor arrogant. Always maintain a calm mindset, avoiding extremes and unrealistic ambitions.
They had been together for six years. One day, he packed his bags and said he wanted to see the outside world. She simply said, go ahead. Her friends didn’t understand why she let him go, but she calmly replied that one must see the world to truly understand. A year later, he returned and she asked about his journey. He said that wherever he went, he only saw traces of her, and finally realized she was his world, his freedom, and his true home.
Some people have many chances to meet but keep postponing them, and when they finally want to meet, the opportunity is gone forever. Some farewells last a lifetime, and by the time we want to do something, we no longer have the desire. Life is a journey moving forward; every scenery we pass and every extra step we take adds meaning to our existence. Life carries regrets and helplessness, but there is no need to blame yourself too much. Give your heart a touch of green and others a smile, regardless of fate and change. The most comforting thing is that when you wake up, the sun is still shining, you are still alive, and everything remains beautiful.
Do not lament that you are not strong, and do not believe only heroes are strong. The moment you feel the joy of overcoming yourself, you already possess the mindset of a strong person.
Life is like tea; in youth it may be bitter, but after time and settling, it becomes sweet and soothing.
Proactively presenting yourself has many benefits. It allows others to see you, recognize your existence, and understand your abilities.
