The wind and the sun made a bet to see who could make a passerby take off his hat. The wind blew with all its might, but the harder the wind blew, the tighter the man held onto his hat. The sun, however, was in no rush. It simply radiated warmth, and feeling the heat, the man voluntarily removed his hat. This is the best demonstration that gentleness is more powerful than force.
Ajun and Amei, an 80s-born couple, are a model of harmony in the eyes of their friends. Throughout their five years of marriage, they have never had a single quarrel. One day, Amei asked, "Did you have any other relationships before meeting me?" This was not her first time asking. In truth, Amei was not Ajun's first love. During his university years, he had been in love with a girl named Xiaochong, but since meeting Amei, he had no further contact with his past.
Ajun often reads books on psychology to understand the psychological differences between men and women. He never told his wife about his past. Instead, he would hold Amei's hand and say deeply, "Darling, you are my first love and my last."
If one works hard, there is always a chance to succeed, but success should not be forced. Those who embrace fate often find more surprises, while those who follow the natural course of life are less likely to be misled by the world.
They had been together for six years when he decided to pack his bags to see the world. She calmly said, "Go." Her friends wondered why she let him leave, but she simply replied, "How can one truly understand without seeing the world?" A year later, he returned and asked about her journey. He said, "I traveled everywhere, but in every corner, I saw only your shadow. I finally realized that you are my world, my freedom, and my home."
