After hearing Niu's thoughts, Auntie Zhang looked at him piercingly and asked, "If it were you, would you agree?" Her words were like a sudden wake-up call. From then on, whenever Niu acted on impulse, he would ask himself: "If it were me, would I agree?"
Some people have many opportunities to meet, yet they always make excuses, only to find the opportunity gone when they finally want it. Some separations last a lifetime; some things that were never done become things one no longer wishes to do even when the chance arises. Life is a journey forward; the value of living lies in appreciating the scenery along the way and persevering through the bumps in the road. Life carries many regrets and frustrations, so there is no need to blame yourself too much. Give your soul a touch of greenery and others a smile, regardless of whether fate is full or waning. The greatest comfort in life is waking up to find the sun still shining, that you are still alive, and that everything around you is still beautiful.
The best state of mind is tranquility and composure. If life is a drop of water, desire is a surging river. Who can win a race against infinite desire with a brief life? The bitterness of desire lies in what we cannot obtain and what we cannot let go of. Let those who are meant to leave go peacefully. Remember, greatness comes from tolerance, and strength comes from lack of greed.
In character, shrewdness is no match for grace; in tasks, speed is no match for precision; in friendship, being pedantic is no match for magnanimity; in wealth, excess is no match for moderation; in work, ability is no match for attitude; in knowledge, breadth is no match for depth; in thought, sharpness is no match for height; in success, talent is no match for resilience; in temperament, appearance is no match for charm. May you act with moderation and live with endless laughter.
If no one believes in you, believe in yourself; if no one appreciates you, appreciate yourself; if no one blesses you, bless yourself. Touch your own sunshine with your heart and create your own era with love. Only when you understand yourself can the world understand you.
