A life should be lived so that when looking back, one does not regret wasting years or feel ashamed of being mediocre; and on one's deathbed, one can say: my entire life and all my energy have been dedicated to the most magnificent cause... fighting for the liberation of humanity.
In this world, no one can live entirely according to their own will, for there are too many uncertainties and unknowns, and we are not the center of the universe. Some things stay with us without striving or clinging, while others remain out of reach regardless of our efforts. We must learn to accept what belongs to us and what does not, without compulsion or obsession. Since that is the case, we should learn to embrace life as it comes. Ultimately, you will find that your former stubbornness was nothing more than a farce in the eyes of others.
Life is essentially a process of replacing one anxiety with another, and one desire with another. No goal can ever provide us with a permanent guarantee.
It is easy to be comfortable at home, but hard to navigate the world. The difficulty lies not in leaving home, but in how one lived while at home. If one is accustomed to having every need met without effort, life becomes difficult once they step outside. No matter how busy or professional one is, basic life skills are indispensable. It is a bittersweet joke to be asked to "serve oneself" in a restaurant or a restroom if one lacks basic self-care. Life is not meant to be pampered.
When we are hurt, face setbacks, or feel low, we instinctively seek comfort. Since we know we need it, why not provide it to ourselves? Instead of dwelling on how bad the situation is, focus on how to soothe your own soul. We should admire those who maintain confidence despite their flaws. There are no perfect people in this world; if one can smile at imperfections, those imperfections can become the backdrop of beauty.
