To know if a man truly loves you, observe whether he shows his vulnerability when helpless, whether you are the first person on his mind when he is lonely, whether He can openly express his emotions in your presence when failing, whether he remains devoted to you after learning your flaws, and whether his heart remains solely yours even when he admires the beauty of others.
Happiness is finding someone for whom you are willing to struggle with weight loss, yet that person simply pats your head and says, "Eat more, don't go hungry."
Trust is a precious treasure in life. It is the kind gaze cast upon you when rumors swirl, the steadfast companionship on your journey, the full support during hardships, and the guiding light that dispels pain when you are slandered.
Sometimes, the one who loves you is right by your side, while the one who occupies your heart is someone else. You weep and grieve for them, giving without expecting anything in return, mistaking it for love when it is merely an unrequited attachment. We often believe that what we cannot have is best, yet fail to cherish what comes easily. In the process of wounding ourselves, we also inadvertently hurt those who love us deeply. It is often after many twists and turns that we realize love has been beside us all along.
Life is a journey where the more we take, the less we truly possess, and the more we let go, the more we gain. How should we live? In youth, embrace abundance; in middle age, seek truth; in old age, pursue essence. In youth, let go of what you cannot attain; in middle age, let go of what you should not possess; and in old age, let go of what you do not need.