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Understanding Yourself
The prerequisite for change is knowing what needs to be changed and why. In reality, our true selves may be less ideal than our reflection—even with an objective tool like a mirror, people can still misjudge their own appearance. When dealing with dimensions like personality and character, which are far more complex than looks and lack a "magic mirror" to tell the truth, accurately understanding oneself becomes even more challenging. However, just as a mirror is a useful tool for observing appearance, we can find "mirrors" in other dimensions to help identify our shortcomings and seek improvement. One effective method is actively seeking feedback. In my previous work team, we practiced a habit called "Providing and Absorbing Feedback": after every major project or meeting, a team member would provide one-on-one feedback to the owner. The feedback included observed strengths and weaknesses, the reasons behind them, and suggestions from a third-party perspective. This practice proved highly effective in helping team members continuously improve. Therefore, you should proactively seek feedback by sincerely asking one to three people who can offer constructive guidance, thereby achieving better self-awareness.
正确认识自己
改变的前提是明确自己哪些地方需要改变，以及为什么要改变。事实证明，真实的自我往往比镜子里的形象更不理想——即便有了镜子这样客观的工具，人们在面对外貌这种直观现象时仍可能产生误判；而在性格与品质等更复杂的维度上，由于缺乏“魔镜”，想要客观认识自己显然更具挑战性。不过，既然镜子能帮助我们观察外貌，我们也可以在其他维度寻找“镜子”，通过它发现不足并寻求提升。其中一个有效的做法是主动寻求反馈。在以往的工作团队中，我们有一种名为“提出与吸收反馈”的习惯：在重要的项目或会议结束后，由成员对负责人进行一对一反馈。反馈内容涵盖观察到的优点与不足，并解释原因，同时从第三方视角提供改进建议。实践证明，这种规则能有效推动团队成员持续进步。因此，我们也应主动寻求反馈，诚恳地向1至3位能够提供建设性意见的人寻求建议，从而实现更好的自我认知。