Do not overestimate yourself to the point of ignoring the role of external factors; nor underestimate yourself to the point of becoming a mere product of others. As long as you are on the journey, there is no destination you cannot reach. Your future self only needs to be better than who you are today.
Life is beautiful precisely because of the struggle. On the journey of life, we are always walking the line between success and failure.
Do not hesitate in the first half of your life, and do not regret in the second. Live in the moment and seize every fleeting opportunity to find your way. In social interactions, be humorous with trivial matters, cautious with uncertainties, and appropriate with joy. Do not broadcast sadness to everyone, speak carefully about others' affairs, listen to your own heart regarding your own matters, act on the present, and leave the future to the future.
Sometimes, accepting that others are right can save you from many troubles.
In actions, do not seek merit; being faultless is merit enough. In character, do not seek gratitude; being blameless is virtue enough. When interacting with others, constantly ask yourself: "How can I be of value to them?" Use your morality, cultivation, and knowledge to benefit others, and cultivate kindness into a core belief.
At critical moments, we need the courage to cut off our own retreats. When there is a fallback, we tend to rely on luck and settle for comfort; but without a fallback, we can focus all our energy and move forward bravely. Sometimes, When others are being vague in conversation, silence is a form of wisdom.
Destiny dictates that you will encounter three flames: life, death, and love; ride three mounts: desire, fear, and love; and face three betrayals: for blood, for wealth, and for love.