The failure of many is not due to incompetence, but rather a lack of focus. Admire good deeds and associate with virtuous people. As the saying goes, "even begging requires wisdom and skill," and an old Chinese proverb states, "even a thief follows a code." In our daily work and study, Nothing can be accomplished effectively without thinking and following certain rules. When a crisis arises, one should think about breaking conventions, for many of the world's miracles are the results of defying the status quo. It is a profound blessing to encounter someone in life who is sincere and free of prejudice. Perhaps only after experiencing bitterness can we truly understand the preciousness of genuine affection.