In a vast world, human hearts are incredibly complex, with thoughts that are often hard to fathom. Do not get entangled in the emotions of others, nor use them to torment yourself. Each person's world is defined by their own perception. Once you see through it all, the world becomes clear and tranquil.
Lies will eventually be exposed. Maintaining honesty may lead to temporary setbacks, but it allows one to live with a sense of peace. Conversely, once you fall into the habit of lying, you may face lifelong regrets and constant obstacles.
Be patient when listening to others. Even if you are reluctant, avoid interrupting, as you might gain profound lessons from their stories.
On my journeys, I listen to others' stories with wonder, often overlooking any fictional elements. Sometimes, I recount these tales vividly, almost as if they were the ultimate truths of life, because I once mistakenly believed that the things I so desperately sought were hidden within such beautiful stories.
Some say "silence is golden." Indeed, silence is often much better than mindless chatter, as it does not irritate others. However, excessive silence is also not a good thing; if you lose the desire to speak, you also lose the opportunity to express and share joy. I used to be an emotional person, but now I remain calm and composed. My mind is like a still lake, letting emotions sink to the bottom of the sea, watching the clouds drift by with equanimity. Perhaps this is the state of finding peace within oneself.